Have you ever known someone who doesn't like you for no particular fault of yours??? Strangely but truly enough such people do exist.
The sad part is that because of their attitude they are able to set you off on a path of introspection. You go over every single encounter and wonder when you might have stepped on their toes. But ofcourse, you are not bound to come up with anything because you never did!
Take a step back and you realise that's how these people are. Nothing or no one is ever good enough for them.
In my opinion, such behaviour is perhaps triggered by some deep-seated feeling of insecurity; an inferiority complex or perhaps envy. This need not necessarily be because of you. These people have the unique capability of zeroing in on that one thing you perhaps are better at or have more of, overlooking all else and therefore you end up receiving the cold vibes that you do.
Honestly, all of us somewhere or the other have these feelings inside us too, may be we just end up managing them better. The set of people I'm referring to allow these feeling to manifest and also allow the negativity to pervade their whole being.
Is there a way out of this spiral? Well. I hope so.
Even though I continue to be amazed, I have learnt to live with it or should I say with them.
1 comment:
best thing is to give them a cold shoulder before they do...be humble to the humble and haughty to the haughty..
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